Thursday, July 28, 2011

Sending your kid to spend summer vacation with your Ex isn't hard for you ?



  I want to share this experience with all the divorce moms. Every time a have to send my son with his Dad for 35 days during the summer vacations is so hard for me. I thought time will make it  easy,  but to my surprise it's harder.This summer I read other moms experiences in Facebook  and I know that I'm not alone in this issue. 

I understand that his Dad also deserves to spend time with him, but this practice of not having my son with me it's not easy to get use to. 
Understand that I spend  so much time with my son that the  concept separation is very stressful for me. In my case the bond between my son and I  it's so big that words can describe.Since the first day he's not home my routine changes 100%.
  I even some times call him, forgetting that his not home.
One of the biggest test of my summer is opening his room and see it empty.

This summer I re-decorate his room to have a way to feel him close to me, I totally recommend this for all the mom that are going through this process...

From the bottom of my heart I want to tell all the divorce moms that you're not alone, we are many in this boat... Just remember... Pray a lot and... Count your blessing

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